Moving into residential aged care is a significant life transition, not only for the person moving in but also for their family and friends. While this change can bring a mix of emotions, it doesn’t mean your relationship has to change. In many cases, families find they can spend more meaningful, enjoyable time together once the responsibilities of day-to-day caregiving are reduced.
Maintaining strong family relationships contributes to emotional wellbeing, helps residents feel valued and supported, and reinforces a sense of belonging. Regular contact can also provide comfort during the adjustment period and help residents settle into their new home with confidence.
For family members, staying involved offers reassurance and a chance to share important moments together.
Quality matters more than quantity. Whether you visit weekly or fortnightly, focus on spending time together in ways your loved one enjoys.
Things to do together include:
- Sharing a cup of tea or a favourite meal
- Looking through family photo albums
- Going for a walk in the garden
- Watching a favourite television show together
- Playing cards, board games or completing puzzles
- Listening to music from earlier decades
- Celebrating birthdays and family milestones
Simple conversations and shared experiences often become the moments that matter most. When visiting isn’t possible, there are many other ways to stay in touch. Use phone calls, video chats and text messages to keep the connection going. Regular phone calls, video chats and text messages can help maintain familiar routines. Sending photographs, letters or drawings from grandchildren can brighten someone’s day and provide lasting reminders of family connections.
We welcome family involvement in social events, celebrations and special activities. Take part when you can to share in your loved one’s community life. Joining your loved one for seasonal events, concerts, cultural celebrations or family days creates new memories and helps them feel connected to both family and their community.
Although moving into residential aged care marks a new chapter, family love, support and connection continue to play an important role in helping residents enjoy a fulfilling, meaningful life.